I had received the paperwork regarding my dissolution last Friday and after reveiwing them, I sent copies to my wife. Since she seemed upset that I stopped talking to her, I thought that was a positive and I was really looking forward to her reaction to the papers.
When I sent the e-mail, I only put one line of text with the forward. It said:
Please review. Timeline is up to us at this point.
Jerry
Then I left it alone. I was hoping she was having second thoughts about the sitch.
However when I got to work this morning there was the reply in my e-mail. She wants to get together to discuss everything to make sure we are on the same page. I told her that the attorney drafted it exactly to the specifications we gave her and there should be nothing to review. However, I wonder if she is just trying to get some face time? I doubt it but it's possible. I have only been DBing about 11 days and already our interactions have changed.
However, I am still a little down this morning about the fact that she even replied. I was hoping to see that just sit.....but I'm not going to let it get me down. Even if we both sign today it will be 8 weeks until the divorce. I'm not going to stop DBing. So much has changed in the last 8 weeks and I am convinced that a lot can change in the next 8 weeks.
If nothing else, all of this self improvement has led to a heck of a lot better version of me, and that's a good thing no matter what the outcome will be.
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Bomb Jan 1 Sep Feb 1 Seeing OM Feb 10 Divorce Papers Given to Her 03/20....returned signed 4-9....she wants it as of now.
