We are in the exact same boat here. I am doing ALL of the work around the house. Cooking, cleaning, and paying the bills. H just sits around and watches TV, works on his paintings and listens to his music. I know the main reason he is living here with me is because he would be living on the streets otherwise. He doesn't make enough money to live on his own (or so he says). So in the meantime, I pay his car payment, buy him toothpaste and things, and pay all the bills. He has to pay for his cell phone and student loan. I notice that his student loan bill hasn't been paid in 2 months.
In a way I don't mind doing these things for him. And he does take notice and thank me for cleaning and stuff. But I dont' know if it is any help to him.
So if you figure out what to do about it, please pass the info on to me.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
