jaw,

It means a lot to me to hear that especially since very recently I have receive a few not so welcoming responses from other members. It is frustrating to me that I am pigeonholed into the stereotypical WAW role. Was I perfect, no far from it, but I am appalled by some of the behavior described by the LBS's. I never did and never will treat my H with such disrespect. Anyway I am getting off topic.

My H had surgery two weeks ago and I have been taking care of him, the house, and the dog. For the most part he acts grateful and we have a lot of laughs together, but when other people are over he seems to retreat just a bit. All in all things are good as friends, but I am still trying to figure out how to move out of the friend stage that my H has become quite comfortable with. It is so hard to believe that this is my husband.

I am sorry to hear that you have a court date, but it is far from over. Keep up the good work. I can't imagine what she would see in a boy. I am confident that she will get over that phase sooner or later. How else are things between you two?


Posts
Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
WAW now LBS part III(current)
T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.