Letting go...

[kikifree]

There are people who can walk away from you.



And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let
them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving
you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to
you.
I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.


The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest
that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with us. [1 John 2:19]



People leave you because they are not joined to you.



And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.


Let them go.


And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part
in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your
story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.



You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the
gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's
not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means
for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop Begging people to stay! .


Let them go!!


If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never
intended for your life,


Then you need to......



LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......


LET IT GO!!!



If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....


LET IT GO!!!


If someone has angered you .



LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......



LET IT GO!!!


If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......


LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents



LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude.......


LET IT GO!!!


If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......


LET IT GO!!!


If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in
Him......


LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.......


LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves......


LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed .........


LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself
and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to......



LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2008!!!

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left . Think about it, and then .



LET IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"

-TD JAKES

[TRUSTING]

Wonderful reminder of what we need to do...

[cagzmom]

oh yeah sister! preach preach!

My girlfriend recently said the same thing. I should post her email. SHe went through this years ago. And she said some good stuff....

Kiki- T- we are getting it!! I really really really really am trying to believe that GOD has a wonderful plan for US!!

[ShadesofGrey]

Kiki,

I love your post. Not only for the MLLC lunacy but for life's everyday issues.

Hope you are doing well.

Love,
Shades

[enlightenbylife]

Great post,

Would be a great affirmation to start every day

"LET IT GO"

Thanks Kiki

Enlightenedbylife

[Jeanette1120]

Thank you so much for sharing this Keekers!!

It's WONDERFUL!! and the timing is spectacular!

How are you doing?

Hugs,

Jeanette

[Cinderellaman]

Hi Kiki, how are you ? Please post an update...have been a bit down myself, just let it all get to me I guess...but I am trying hard to get back into it and just live my life, because H has NO intentions of returning whatsoever...

[kikifree]

H did text Monday that he didn’t know when we were getting back and have d7 call him.

I swear I think he tests me.

I texted him later that we just got home and D7 was sleeping.

H texted ok.
An hour later , he texted again (very late) that he was not able to pick up D7 the following day because he had to work and he would pick her up Wed. instead and if that was ok.

Our schedule has been tues but he has been changing it weekly.

So I told H it would be better if he picked her up tues- thurs . I told him d7 had a game on tues.

H responded: No cant do ..nevermind.
How is the game going to make it easier?

I was telling him about the game for D7.But he didn’t see it that way.

So instead of texting I called him back . I
M: hey you can pick her up wed and I need you to pick her next week tues-thurs
H: Why?
M: I figure you haven’t seen her in weeks and I need you to.
H: why?
M: h I just need you to . I do not ask you why when you change the schedule . I just do
H: well, I need to know why and I knoe you are not asking ME a favor …Liz, don’t ask me for favors
M: It is not for me it is about your daughter
H: You said YOU needed me too..I have to check my schedule ..its not here
M: H you do not have a schedule
H: well I have to see if I have plans
M: ok h Just pick her up Wed
H: Thank you
M: bye

So he thinks he is doing me favors???? How do you deal with them when they treat children worse than dogs

[kikifree]

Part of my post isnt here . I said...

Hi all. I try to read the"letting go' everyday.

And u are all welcome.

As for h, well our court date is noe in the end of JUNE!!!I feel like he is winning. part of the problem is , he is not paying his lawyer. So his lawyer told mine that he cant work without paying him.

H doesnt pay me , his lawyer, his bills..so her does his money go????

Cindrs, how can it not get to you? how can it not get to any of us? it is just a matter of reprogramming who we are. that is not too easy. Hang in ther, girl . The sun will come up.

[Valentine]

Babygirl, it is exactly about what you wrote at the top of your thread..

LET IT GO

He is NOT winning...and his L will not set a court date until he PAYS him. Trust me, MLM is a lawyer...

Hang in there...you are right, the sun will rise....

Hugs,
V