Maybe you should give more details about how you were "not a joy to be married to".
Then give details of how you changed recently.

I'm also puzzled why people post in "divorced but not done" forum, when they arent actually divorced yet. ;\)

PS: when you say "we plan this wedding", do you mean that you and she are actually working together on it, for your daughter?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle