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VC

De is right I feel on this point.

Have things been getting to comfortable the way they were going that he feels you will just be there when he wants and he doesn't have to work on his issues?
This I feel has been happening to me and now Im'e in the process of shaking things up. I have to laugh because he gets so nervous about me perhaps leaving that he gets clingy. Thing is is that I have been holding leaving as an option because I deserve his love, all of it not just bits here and there. I want my needs met too.

It is so hard as we have been married for so long. But we need to become the new girl friend. At the same time we need to make our life what we want it, for us as individuals.

((((((((VC))))))))) I think we can all use them right now!

JAK

Hey did you see in my Signiture that Im'e having another set of grandtwins?

Girls. They rule!!!!

Last edited by jak58; 03/25/08 01:35 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez