After I read my post I realized how one-sided it came out. A lot of things that I used to suggest, I stopped doing. Part of it was apathy on my part. Part of it was that H rarely actually jumped on it. A few months ago he said that, sure, I'd suggest things to do, but wouldn't follow up on them. I think I just quit trying. The weekend after he said that, I suggested that we take the kids kayaking. He thought it was a great idea. Know what we did instead? Yep, garden/yard projects, putting in a new fountain we bought. He asked, "But aren't you happy it got done? Doesn't it feel good to accomplish a task? You like working in the yard." Everything he said was true, but it was just very typical to me. So a lot of the things that we used to do but don't anymore are because we both stopped doing things together.
The show is Kayne West's Glow in the Dark Tour. I'm going to see Lupe Fiasco.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
