Thanks, GF!! No, H had said about trash talking me somewhere towards the middle of all the emails. Then he calmed down and apologized towards the end of the emails and even sent some nice emails complimenting me on the changes I've made and some other stuff too. Honestly, I guess it's that he is going through a mid-life crisis. He sent me about 50 emails today!
He also agreed to visiting the kids on Saturday instead of like this week he visited Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. He tends to be cranky & yell on Sunday (maybe work-stress related I've always thought?)so I emailed him suggesting he see the kids on Saturday (which he agreed to also at the end of the emails) and I suggested he visit his girlfriend on Sunday!!! (She can enjoy his awful Sunday depressions!!!)So I think that will help solve some of our problems. We wound up being friendly & joking at the end of the day! Like I said, I think it's MLC!!! Karen