Wow ! You are doing great! You are an inspiration to the rest of us. I suggest you insist that he go to a Retrouvaille weekend with you. The sooner the better. See the website, http://www.helpourmarriage.org for dates and locations. This will help to focus his attention on the family. The weekend is a turning point where you focus in and start real communication between you. It is followed up by a series of "Post" sessions where important concepts of love and marriage are taught. Retrouvaille is very healing. It is an excellent opportunity for the two of you to start out on a new pathway together. It was what saved my marraige and many other couples who post on this website.
