Thank you so much for writing me back. I cant even tell you how glad I am to hear back from you. I will definately give this a shot for awhile and see where we go. I really think speding time and showing him some affections is what he needs from me. he talks alot about not wanting any more distance and wanting to hang out with me more, his job prevents this from happening alot. I know he is "cake eating" right now but maybe this will help. I have tried giving space and that didnt seem to work. In fact in the beginning of this whole mess H told me that was what he needed SPACE. H is no longer saying that. I read the other stich you sent me to and your right sounds just like mine. I have told H numerous times I am willing to work on our M or go to MC but OW has to go. He definately knows where I stand on that but maybe I havent been firm. I'm going to try the later and see. THANK YOU so much it seems like most of the stuff I read says to give space and that's not working for us.
How do you detach and stop thinking about OW or always thinking they are together??? Any suggestions? Just keep busy??
