There seems to be quite a bit of this on this board. Everyone has there limits, but I hope that people do not let go and instead remind themselves of the possibilities for their marriage and their spouse.
Well that is the catch isn't it. When you think of your marriage and your spouse, it is hard to not think about the pain that this person caused. HIC, your sit is totally different from mine an d many others here and I think some of us have issues with our WAW's that are a bit unique. When a woman walks away from her children, there is a separation of the heart that cannot be explained. I loved my wife and the mother of my children. She has lost all attractive qualities to me. I miss my wife and the life we used to have but those days are gone and they will never be the same. If a woman walks away from her husband, that is one thing. Adults can deal with the issues and work through things. When you decide that you want to be a single college student in your mid thirties and walk out on your entire family....that is different.
I may not fit in on this board but I hope if any potential WAW reads any of my posts, that she may give a second thought to what she is doing. My wife has severed the relationship with her family out of totally selfish motives. It is far easier to detach from her than I thought. I can tell by her recent behavior that she is also surprised that I do not seem interested in her or spending any time with her.
What I gain from this board is the support of folks who are in similar sits and good insight on how to focus on and work on me.
I love marriage and I loved being married. I hate divorce, but there are consequences for our actions. My wife's actions have caused me to fall out of love with her. I have no desire to be married to her any longer. It pains me to say that.
God luck to you in your sit HIC, I wish my wife had your insight and courage to admit she was wrong.
