We had an awesome weekend, and using the "keep doing what doesn't work" mindset (joke), I have always contacted her on the day after a nice time, and said something positive, like 'wow that was sure a nice weekend'. It has usually backfired. I kept doing it anyway. Idiot!
So this time - MM, change it up!
Like I just said to the Treeman, what do I have to lose?
If this doesn't work, I'll change it again. That is what taking it slow and easy can do for you.