Hi Dave,
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i sometimes think that I am just a spectator , getting on with life and watching what she is doing.

Good job! In fact, you are exactly right, you are just a spectator to her MLC. This is an incredibly important point and helps a lot to get past anger, frustration, and other negative, counter-productive emotions.

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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