"As far as the other part of the story...Not sure, just friends right now" WTH does that mean? So today you are friends but tomorrow who knows? Are you really going to ignore all the advice here and have dinner with her anyway? Do you want your M or just the opportunity to ram it in your W's face? Think, think, think...then cancel your dinner engagement. Btw, FYI when you leave your home and "crash" at a friends, you are legally abandoning your family and leaving yourself open to all kinds of legal sh!t that can have huge ramifications on your rights to your child. Think about it, fish. So many H's on this board have left their home due to wanting to give W space or because they are hurting, it's not a wise move EVER without a SA. So either choose to DB or get a SA, think about your sitch rather than just feel about it. Lastly, your remarks "I have really learned how to detach very quickly" are complete BS, everybody here is telling you that you are too quick to make extreme judgements on your sitch, I think this is another example. It's OK to be somewhere in the middle sometimes, try it!
