Seems you've tried the "nice" route for long enough. I am not saying to be mean, but IMO, a guy who is trying a little too hard just isn't as attractive. I mean, if she were just a friend who interested you, would you take out her trash and do her garden? I hope not!
As you know, I'm trying the "last resort" now and will just see where it goes.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D