there are glimses of the woman I loved but a lot of the time there is a selfish person who has no consideration for the feelings of those around her including her children.
Boy can I relate to that statement, Dave! Just that WAS/WAW syndrome, I guess. I've been recently giving it the honest consideration that I'm really only after W just to see if I can actually win her back, and may be willing to tell her "no thanks" if she actually does. Said, but potentially true, I think. Of course, I'd like to be a family for the kids' sake too. Anyway, I digress...
Glad to see things are still on a relatively positive course with you and your W. Why does your son say you're being too nice/helpful to W? Is he just bitter about her leaving, or does he think it isn't helpful in regard to reconciling? Just curious.
I've got some updates coming up soon that I think are mildly notable. I'll talk with you later, mate!