"Well I still believe that there is some of that as part of this given that he is trying to live like a 20 something with no responsibility by clubbing and bar hopping with the GUYS and drinking drinks he has never before had. I don't know though, maybe he, hell I just don't know FG on this one."
Thank you for saying "I don't know." Until you know leave the MLC out as what the problem is.
"Well when I say talking like old friends I mean that there isn't tension and discomfort from him. But that could very well be because I am doing everything in my power to be that girlfriend and not that wife/mother figure that he maybe felt me to be before."
But what specifically are you talking about? General synopsis will do. I don't need the gory details. Just the high points.
"What am I missing here?"
My sarcasm.
"If he had actually gotten a box of condoms I would have laughed. You see he and I had always been very open about sexual fantasies with others but they were always fantasy. He did actually try with his best friend once last June though to persuade me to be with them both as that had been something we had talked about but I paniced and didn't go through with it."
Very interesting. I am actually a little surprised on that one. Maybe I should not be. I keep forgetting he is not the physical one in the relationship.
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