I know my posts tend to be long-winded, but I sure would love some thoughts...advice...2x4's...

I know I can't base my actions on how H will respond. I know I need to do what's right for ME and for my kids....but the problem is I can't even discern what that IS right now!

Meredith gave me some great advice---to pretend like H is on a desert island and unavailable. That really has been helping with how to handle kids and bills and stuff on a day to day basis, but I still struggle.

Help!


Last edited by tpaschal; 03/24/08 11:26 PM.
Me:40, xH:41
M:19 T:21
D14, S10, D6
IDLYA bomb:12/22/06
OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06
H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07
D papers served 6/07
D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(