Believe it or not, all of those things are for me. B/c of my knee jerk reactions to H's anger in the past (you know...H is mad so I go "do" something to make it better....sheesh) I'd gotten to the point where if he was in a "mood" and I felt like I "needed" to do something....I wouldn't do it. So, now I'm working on getting my home and life back in order.

Does working out to a Billy Blanks dvd count as for me? \:\)