MM is brilliant!!!! Great advice my friend. Fish, get your arse back home, tail between your legs and reclaim some of this ground. Do you know if OM's visit was malignant? While it may have been in poor taste, unless you know that it was out of bounds you have no room to walk on the issue if you have not established boundries.
You and I have communicated a lot over the months and one thing that I see in you is one whom often makes decisions without information. This is not meant to be a slight but you make these broad statements based on a feeling rather than information. We all understand that this board is for venting and is a safe place so do it here not home. But, you can not give back now!!!!
The only other add that I have here is that if you are that redicent to jump into another relationship, then I would re-evaluate what you are fighting for...
No need to answer this question but I will ask it nonetheless:
Do you need to be married to your WIFE or do you need to be in a relationship? Making comments like you have made suggest that you have limited self-esteem and that your ego is tied to a relationship. Me thinks we are never successful in love when our personal ego is tied to our relationship. Me thinks we are successful when our relationship accents our ego. It's the ambiance in our life, not the picture itself.
Update us buddy!
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
