I have decided that I will tell this other person that I am not interested in anything other than friendship as I still want my h to come home which means I am not ready to move on.
This is all so confusing. Today h called me by the petname he calls his ow! (obviously by mistake).
I am dbing but everyone around me is encouraging me to get on with my life, go out on dates etc. Starting to mess with my perspective especially when h is still giving me nothing and going on with his life as if I was an irritating little fly. When i go dark he enjoys it because i disappear!