Some people can dwell here a while. You still have the sex thing to get through then the, well we are back talking and doing it now what.

It just starts to become a show about you and her. Reacting to the situation at hand and hopefully starting to grow together. You start getting answers. You start understanding it better. After that bliss, maybe?

Michelle writes about it in the marriage stages section of the book. She does a pretty good explanation of it. It just gets really hard for outsiders to respond in any other way than "Good Job" or "Keep It Up" or "I Wish I was You".

It still is work. It just feels a lot less like work than it did.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.