I have a serious question. I have bought a piece of property by my mother's house. It is 3/4 acre, and I got it for a pretty good price. I am planning to build a small house on the property for the kids and me. H knows about it, and has agreed that if we do divorce I will get that house and he will get the one I am currently living in. Is this a wise move? I know he won't try to screw me over in the settlement. That isn't what I am asking about. I mean is it a good idea for me to be making steps in that direction? Is this too much of an indication that the D is OK with me? That worries me. I let him know my concerns about the land last week when I asked him to slow down the process. He said not to worry about it. If we do end up back together we will just clear the land and sell it. We would probably make a profit. I am still unsure about it though. On the one hand I want to be prepared to take care of my kids. I don't want to raise them in an apartment complex or a trailer park. On the other hand I am still really afraid that it is a clear sign to him to go forward with the D. Any advice?
