W moved out at beginning of Feb. for the second time. Admitted when she came back first time she didn't really want to, but couldn't afford to live on her own. Now she has moved out again. when she moved into the apartment, she quit her job. Now she doesn't have a full time job.
She has kept saying she was coming to get her clothes from this house. Well, after waiting and waiting, I packed her clothes up and they are waiting by the front door for when she comes to get the kids tonight. Is this a good idea to have them by the door waiting on her when she gets here?
Or do you think I will look like i am giving up on her coming back again? We have been cordial to each other. I have not mentioned anything about R since she left. No ILY's or IMY's. Not being depressed around her. Not happy either, but just even keeled all the time. Should I just let the clothes stay here until she wants to get them.
She is talking to OM everyday. He lives about two hours from here, so i think they only see each other every so often. I don't want to be a doormat. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
