Baby steps in the right direction (thread 3)

[MichelleLT]

You both have changed over the last year. I think part of the problem is you have come a long way, and he is trying to catch up.

As always, the perpetual mantra is patience. Your wonderful H is in there somewhere, and in the long run it can be well worth the pain and frustration.

If you really are getting to a point where you are seriously, consistently thinking that you may want D after all, I think you owe it to him to talk to him about what would need to change to make the R/M work.