Fish, stay strong and don't go on that date. If you've always had "chemistry" then it will still be there in a year, don't rush into it unless you want drama because that's what you'll get.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09