RTL, I so agree with everyone, you need to go dark!!!!! Deal with your L about finances and papers. If I were you I would not discuss anything with her other than visitation times. You should think about protecting yourself and your D. If she questions you , refer her to your L. Until she stabilizes you should only listen to your L. In this woman's mind you are the cause of all her problems, you can't deal with her. Allow the professionals to work things out. It is the only way you will retain your sanity.
