well the wife stopped by today..

[minkerman]

OK so now what you do is stop wagging your tail.

Be cool.

Be calm.

Maybe a quick call, just to see how her day was....NO R TALK. You end the call, not her.

What we all tend to do, after being bombarded with negative messages, is to jump on the first positive and play it to death. Then it gets them scared, they back off, we say "hey wait a minute, what about.....", they get cold and run for the hills and the cycle repeats.

I know, because I did it, way too many times. I don't do it hardly at all now, but I sure used to, even 2 weeks ago.

Be cool Marcum, don't scare her.