(((Cinders)))) I am sorry for your pain...but please know that even if your worst nightmare comes true and your H and the ow remain together, you will be okay. Your children will always love you and NO ONE will ever replace you to them. You will be happy again. I speak from experience...I have had to watch my kids go off with my XH and the OW since they were babies...it was devastating (and at times it is still hard) but little by little, I have let go...Little by little, I got healthy and whole...and I found love again (it is just unfortunate that I seem to pick men with issues since I am going through this again). Regardless of what happens with your M, please know you will be fine...you are beautiful person that has so much to offer to not just your children, but to so many.
