Refuse To Lose, Part VI

[AliSuddenly]

Hey RTL ... you did the right thing. Enough is enugh. You sound so scared of her...she has taken all the control (and your D) away from you and sounds quite nasty. I was reading through all that thinking, ok, you need to stand up for yurself here a little bit, this is getting out of control. So well done for writing that text saying her accusations are ridiculous and also for pressing her for details of the estate agent etc, and then sghe admits she doesnt have one?

And whats all this about destroying your finances? What, is she 4? I would never ever accuse a man/H of destroying my finances if I had LET him do them for me. Wheres the responsibility for herself, for you, for your joint finances there? This isnt the 1950s anymore ! I totally disagree with her stand point. I just cant believe how mean she is being, she is consumed with rage. Its out of control !

I think yuou need to pull back to be honest, go dark. No more chatty texts or trying to appease her or be nice. Strictly business. Be polite, but I dont know, shes gone to far at the moment and needs to just see with her own eyes that you are not the ogre she paints you as.

Dont worry about the "agreement" - surely any evaluator isnt going to frown on your D being in bed with you at 6.30 am??? Every parent of toddlers I knows has their kids get into bed at tht time of the morning..its NORMAL. Who is she to tell you yuo cant do that with your D? I think you need to ignore her! Tell her you are her father and know whats best for her as she does being her mother. I dont know, I feel so mad for you !!!

Your W has had a personality transplant surely??

What do others think?? I think go dark...

Ali
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Me: 37 H: 34
T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
will he reconnect?