new, my comment was to show that your sitch isn't as crazy as you think. I think many people go into a R deciding at some point that they should live together to see if things would work, but I think for some, not all, it lessens their commitment when they finally do make those vows. Society plays a big part in that as well, "when things get tough, don't stay miserable, find something better". I'm sorry I brought it up, it was poor timing on my part. It really doesn't matter what happened in your past, you goal is to save your M and that is what is important.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
