Thanks cat, I know you are correct. I am not hoping for a lot, but given how stubborn she is I am very suprised she would say that. That's why I think it means something. What it means is the question. She could just be mad that I ignored her.

I had started a program called Marriage Fitness about a month ago and it shares some priciples with DB. The big difference is that MF says to keep talking to and contacting the person. I think DB is right that when a woman asks for space it needs to be given. I set myself back a ton by not giving her space. It may cost me my marriage ultimately.

M 31
W 30
S 12
S 10
D 5

Bomb Jan 1
Sep Feb 1
Seeing OM Feb 10
Divorce Papers Given to Her 03/20....returned signed 4-9....she wants it as of now.