I have been very careful to declare my Divorce busted for similar reason Fish. Believe me, it has been much more difficult to keep things going now than ever before. There is an underlying tension in these situations that is painfully obvious yet neither of us want to address...

If I am you, I do not leave the house again. Additionally, you need to establish very clear boundries if either of you want this to work. Finally, me thinks that you need some 3rd party assistance for your entire family. You and W need to stop spending money on life and start spending on some counseling for your family!

This too shall pass, it may pass as a D or it may not, but decisions made in anger will come back to haunt you!


Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce