Oh yes, stay away from W's friend. I don't know which is worse for you the booze or W's friend, so stay away from both! You're hurting right now and you want to feel desired, I do know that feeling. Trust me and re-think Wednesday's dinner, it can only lead to trouble. Lastly, what kind of woman would want to scoop up a best friends hubby when the M isn't even cold? Think about what she could do to you...oooh, it could be nasty! Now, the other side is that she may have absolutely no feelings of "chemistry" here, or any intention of doing anything but soothing your hurt feelings. Again, don't do it, it can lead to feelings in you that you are in no place to guage or act on. It's a no win sitch, Fish. SO DON'T DO IT!