Hey, Jenny. I hope you are doing well and had a great Easter. Sounds to me like your H is getting pretty upset that things are going to go his way. Well, too bad. He certainly doesn't think about making sure things go YOUR way. 60/40 is ridiculously too much for a 6 month old. And, who is HE to tell you to go back to work? Live for yourself and your children. YOU will do what is right because YOU are the sane one right now. It is amazing to me that you H seems so cold to you after all these years together. I can't imagine that he is a happy person. Really, I can't. I say do what you need to do, blow him off and live your life. What happens in the future will happen. As long as you remain kind and calm and not vindictive, you can't go wrong IMO. Hang in there.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
