How's it going? I'm sorry to keep you waiting for so long, I've been away from the board since Thursday. I was thinking about your goals, and thought to myself that it would be a good time for both of us to re-read the DR section on goal-setting. I'm going to try to re-assess my own goals also.
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
me ---->it's good to come to these boards but sometimes I need to pick up a book instead therefore GAL without H as the main focus
I love to read too. Maybe refine the goal to include a list of books you've been meaning to read? Include weekly trips to the library or bookstore? Weekly trip to someplace quiet to read?
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
---->enrolled in my support group although I was scared to death because I had never reached out so far to other people therefore 1) meeting new people 2) sharing my experiences in hopes of helping others positive feedback for me
Specific goal would be to attend a certain number of support group meetings a month? Maybe arrange to meet some of your new friends after the support group meetings?
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
---->get back to my passions, cuddling puppy,stop nagging kids, sewing,putsing around the back yard
I like this one too! Maybe a goal of getting the yard in good shape? Planting a new garden? Going a whole week without nagging the kids?
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
---->laughing and putting a positive spin on things ( really hard but doable)
What makes you laugh and/or feel positive? Add that to your goals!
I don't have anything to add to your R goals. I think you've done a great job. Try to remember that now is the time to focus on you! Hugs...
