My sig other is not begging to come back at all. We don't have ANY contact whatsoever. He doesn't want to see our daughter, won't take care of the financial end of things.
I've read both Div Rem and Divorce Busting, I will have to pick up the other book you suggested.
Tell me more as to why you don't think I should be using the LRT? I think he would see through me doing something different, like going to his mother's so she can visit with our daughter. I do think our rel is salvageable, i just don't think he knows how to go about doing it being so consumed with anger and guilt. He is so scared I know that for sure but he is a do nothing kind of guy.
Me 40 H 30 D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months H walked out nov 1, 2009 Seperated ever since filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10