Now he is emailing me that he will be telling them stuff he wants them to understand about normal parents and stuff. I think he thinks he is normal having an affair when he is married which is funny/weird. I am afraid he is going to tell them it is acceptable for him to have an affair because of whatever reasons.

I know he was upset from what my sil emailed me that the kids had no reaction or upset when he moved out, and continue not to care much about him. I think he is thinking I am telling them stuff to get them to feel that way about him, but I've said nothing; they just feel distant I think b/c he was spending all his time with the OW and texting her when he was home or out on the porch by himself a lot. I guess he can't face that he distanced himself from the kids, so he is trying to find a reason even if he has to make one up!!!


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D18, S24