I think you both are correct. I need to put DBing on hold here for the time being. I'm going to go back to the non-responsive ways of dealing w/ W. I sent off information to my L about getting her financial paperwork and I'll wait to hear what he says about that.
I think I'll go ahead and make copies today and have them ready to give to W if she wants to see them. Otherwise, I'm going to simply keep things about D. You are both right. I can't appease her regardless of what I try to do, so I'll try to do nothing.
I'm still worried my admitting of D being in bed w/ me for 45 minutes will be used against me, but I'll bring that up w/ the parenting evaluator on Tuesday to see what he says. Oh, well. It is a terrible place to be, but I have to go to a very dark shade of grey w/ W right now.
She's lost it and her "experts" are her friends who are giving her bad advice based on 1/2 the facts.
I'll see if she even responds to my e-mail about seeing my D this week and helping her get her stuff. I'm pretty sure that will go w/out a reponse as well.
Thanks for chiming in, fellas. I'm pretty alone here right now.