Neecy, here is a clue as to just ON-TARGET we are with this current line of thinking/action:
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The other night before my ride showed up he called (this is amongst the texts and he had only been gone 10 min) hafway through the convo I thought about things I've heard on here and said, alright then have a nice time I'll talk to you in a bit, bye. H - "wait, wait, why are you trying to get off the phone? I'm still talking."
Bingo!
DO do your "GAL" things -- that's great! Do NOT feel the need to tell him anything more than "I'm going out for awhile; Grandma's gonna watch the kids. I won't be late!" and then leave. If he texts you, ignore it for about an hour, and that text back -- JUST ONCE -- "That's sweet of you to check up on me. I'm fine -- see you later!" And do NOT reply to his further texts.
This was great:
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My only response was should we go through your phone and discuss the calls?
, but you should have prefaced it with a firm "Please don't go thru my cellphone; it's desrespectful. Should we go through YOUR phone and discuss the calls?"
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One more different convo last night. The apple commercial that had been bugging me because of the song came on. He looked right at me laughed and said, that isn't the song. I said, I know and I really don't care if it is. He cocked his head and says, yes you do. Um no really I don't, 1. just because the song meant something to her doens;t mean it meant anything to you, you could care less about stuff like that 2. I am caring less and less about things like that everyday. H- It doesn't bother you just a little? Me - nope. About 10 min later, H- what do you mean you are caring less about things?
