Bring on the Rain

[SueS]

Sara-

Yes, I asked myself the same question! I think there are a lot of things that need to be explained to H in a way he might understand. You know, I love my BIL. He's always been good to me. I HATE the way he treats his wife though. She's one tough cookie though. Anyway, as H & I were having our brief conversation about whether or not they were coming to see us, I could see in his expressions & hear in his voice that he (and his brother) STILL do not see their faults and what they have done wrong......still see these issues as mine & SIL's......what we've done wrong. To hear H tell the story, you'd think I never gave him sex, love, affection.....anything. Yes, I had a hard time after having a baby. I always said...ILY, always gave hugs, kisses. Sex wasn't as much as H wanted, but I rarely denied him. Again, it's all about him! He told me yesterday.....Well, I guess this is all my fault. I told him...H, AGAIN, I know I made mistakes but you won't accept my apology for those and try to let me work things out with you.

Hope your foot is better!

SueS