Sorry to find you here. I am sorry for your pain. One thing I didn't get out of your post is where are you in all of this.

For the most part DBing is to try to get your spouse or significant other back, but it seems as if he is begging to come back. DBing is also great for getting yourself book. I began reading "how to get through to the man you love" by Michele. It sounds as if this could be very helpful to you in understand your man and how to make changes that will create change in your relationship. There is also a discussion going on in the After Reconciling-keep the changes going. thread. In my opinion you shouldn't be doing the LRT. It is used for just that, as your last resort, and again as a way to not only get your spouse/significant other back and to detach.

Do you have any specific questions?

Last edited by HOPEFULinCALI; 03/24/08 03:02 PM.
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Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
WAW now LBS part III(current)
T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.