Wow, thanks for all the feedback! Ali, Bruce, BT, Kalni, Sleeper--There is a lot you've given me to reflect on. I didn't sleep well at all last night (and late last night she cc'd me on an birthday email message she was sending to one of her extended family, signed "Love, W. and Purr". I am truly confused, but I want to reflect on all the comments from you guys and post back in a day or two (I have a short trip too, leaving today).
Thank you for your support and talk to you when I get back.
