Originally Posted By: sgctxok
I DO have a LOT of faith in you. This is posted for newbies who are lost, who may stop in on someone else's thread and not see the whole thing.


Thanks for clarifying that.
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As I posted somewhere else before.....only the person in the situation has all the details. We don't walk in their shoes. Also ... there are situations where the spouse has an addiction, or other behavior, that gets turned completely around. It happens all the time. On the other hand....it doesn't happen in every situation. We are just not able to make the call FOR them.


By the time someone shows up to this kind of board, the addiction, to whatever it may be, is out of control and causing destruction to the spouse and the family. There is always hope, but it's important to keep our survival instincts intact.
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Things like getting a life, building their confidence go a long way (as most everyone on THIS forum knows) in helping them to make THEIR right decisions.


I agree.