Sleeper,

I am in the same exact spot. No different. She wants to date but gets very curious as to where I am and what I am doing. I think I need to move out.

My W also:

Sought approval/permission from me for what she wanted to do.

Wanted "us" to have the freedom to sleep with others (I later found out she wanted that freedom but DID NOT want me to sleep with anyone else).

Repeatedly spoke of the possibility of us getting together again one day, even as she was moving away.

Emphatically wanted us to always "be there" for each other.

Appeared/appears very confused and confuses the H*LL out of me!