Your W's sitch is the MOST EXACTLY like my W's that I have heard so far! Has there been any lifechanging event, death of a relative, etc., that may have triggered this? There was in my W's sitch.
My W also:
Sought approval/permission from me for what she wanted to do.
Wanted "us" to have the freedom to sleep with others (I later found out she wanted that freedom but DID NOT want me to sleep with anyone else).
Repeatedly spoke of the possibility of us getting together again one day, even as she was moving away.
Emphatically wanted us to always "be there" for each other.
Appeared/appears very confused and confuses the H*LL out of me!
The only thing I wished I had done differently is LET HER GO! She is going to do this thing, her mind is made up. Let her go to work this out on her own way in her own time (the only way it can be done). Have as little contact as possible. I feel like the faster they are able to start their journey, the faster they will be over it and anything we do to hamper or slow it down will only prolong it.
She has set her course, you must set yours and stick to it, no matter what she, or anyone, says or does. If you focus on what she says and does you too will be spinning like a top.
Detatch man, detatch.
Last edited by sleeper; 03/24/0801:02 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
