VC,

I think if it was me I would have to confront him.
Right now he is cake eating. You need to decide for you what you are willing to put up with . For me it would be confronting and letting him know that I would not accept his cake eating and set boundries. Your call.

JAK


You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez