YA know what I think Iv'e figured out why H loves me but is not emotionally connected.

Easter H got a picture blown up of him and I and put it in a frame a friend of ours had gotten from the phillipines. along with a card . Never has he done something like that for easter. Made me feel special.
I would think he was just cycling if not for the fact that he did not do this at all through his crisis. (never showed feelings or said things he didn't mean).

I thought about it for a while and what I feel is that he does love me but is waiting for those in love feelings like what he felt for OW when he was falling for her.

Now I have to think of ways to make him have those feelings for me again. I know, flirt act like his girlfriend ect...
But it's a lot harder when youv'e been married for 31 years to achieve the status of new girlfriend. ;\) Should I discuss this with him?

Any suggestions? Do you think I may be in the ballpark here?

JAK

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