I have ordered the KLA tapes, I ride about 45 minutes to work everyday and 45 mins home so I will be able to listen to them this week probably in the car.
Great decision! Drive safety and DB!
[quote]I am starting to think that he will HAVE to "reel me in" in order for this to work out between us becuase I will need to see in a way that he wants this relationship to work out no matter what it takes. I need to know that he DESIRES it and really wants to be with me.
Now, you're on track. You need his full commitment. When you pursued, nagged, and demanded, it sent him right out the door. This time, do something different. Keep up the GAL/180s even when he shows interest. Also, I would raise the bar before he moves back in. He needs to realize how life would be without you. If you re-unite, do not throw away your hard work. Continue the GAL/180s; and later, you can tweak it. Break the cycle. As for now: Play hard to get!
You are not manipulative. Lead him to realization - that you are the most important person in his life!
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I plan on staying distant, acting as if, GAL, and creating mystery as usual. These things worked the last time to make him reconcider, so I will keep at them.
Grrreat plan. Michele says, if it works, keep the changes going!
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I was tempted today to text him a Happy Easter, but I resisted. He didnt text me either.
High five! Don't give in. Keep your eye on the prize.
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I am not sure what to do about my H's birthday coming soon: -do I text him Happy Birthday, (and thats it)? -or do I send him a very short non-mushy friendly card that says it. -or nothing at all, (which I would just feel really rude doing).
Last year I had a b-day after he first left me and he just text me happy birthday. So I presume that is what I should do for his. -any thoughts? TIPPER
Yes, I would text a short, "Happy Birthday" message without any smileys.
