W sent another text admitting she didn't have an agent or that she didn't have a "financial planner" but several people looked at our finances. She is lying and can't keep her lies straight.
However, the fireworks went off when W responded to my calling her accusations insulting. She sent off this:
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You are telling me that D is lying to me on her own? She said it...on her own.
My reply may get me in trouble, but if I lose my D over this then there is no hope in our justice system. I replied:
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She was in her own bed. She was in my bed from 545-630 b/c I was too tired from getting up at 4 am to hide eggs to put her back to bed.
Ok, I probably shouldn't have stated that she was in my bed this morning for a whopping 45 minutes. In hindsight, that should have been left out b/c W fires back w/ "So you admit she was in bed w/ you in violation of our agreement."
Technically, yes. I violated the agreement, I guess. The agreement W wrote was this:
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D needs to sleep alone in her own bed...
She was in her bed from her normal bed time until right before she normally gets up, so I'd say the agreement wasn't violated as she spent the night in her own room by herself. I think a sane person would see it this way. At least I hope they would.
I didn't answer W's charge, but sent this off instead:
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D is playing good cop/bad cop w/ us. She told me YOU let her take her clothes off in bed. I told her that was not true and people always wear clothes to bed. She also said she sleeps w/ YOU regularly. This came from her alone and not from me. So am I to have the same freak out concern w/ her in your bed? Of course not. She is 4, she is confused, and she is testing. You are a good mom and I am a good dad. I trust you to handle her in the best way for Grace when she does things like this and I would expect the same from you. Her world has been turned upside down. We can't forget about that.
I didn't get a reply from W, of course. However, I'm a bit worried that my text may lead to some restraning order or something from W's side. I shouldn't have said it, but I'm hoping that the courts and the parenting evaluator will take it for what it is -- nothing of consequence. I really don't know and I am a bit apprehensive about it, to be truthful.
I erred tonight because I was trying to help my W w/ some of her fears over our financials as well as trying to stand up for myself a bit as well. I really hate this. I took her bait, I guess, and gave her some ammuntion. I hope it is very small and doesn't hurt me in the end.
Now, I'm officially going to take some drugs and go to sleep. Talk to you tomorrow.
